Death and Life

How to Repurpose Your Dead Relative's Stuff Into a Meaningful Keepsake

How to Repurpose Your Dead Relative's Stuff Into a Meaningful Keepsake

By Special Guest Blogger Aug 20, 2021

When someone dies, there's so much stuff to sort through. What to do with a half finished hand-crafted table left behind by a deceased grandpa? Guest Blogger Jerry Pahl tells...

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Taxes Are Done; Next Take 5 Steps to Prepare for Your Death

Taxes Are Done; Next Take 5 Steps to Prepare for Your Death

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Apr 10, 2021

With as little as 5 minutes you can start to feel more prepared, have some peace of mind, and provide an incredible gift to your family and loved ones. By...

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You Know Your Dog Well But What Happens When You Die?

You Know Your Dog Well But What Happens When You Die?

By Special Guest Blogger Feb 13, 2021

Guest Blogger, Charity Cole, shares what she wishes she knew about her grandparent's dog, who she adopted after they died.

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Kids Need Us To Talk To Them About Death

Kids Need Us To Talk To Them About Death

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Jan 29, 2021

  Living with the risk of Covid-19 transmission and hearing about the hundreds of thousands of Americans that have died due to Covid-19, our children are more exposed to death...

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Valentine's Day Tribute

Valentine's Day Tribute

By Lori LoCicero Feb 14, 2020

This season’s design is very near and dear to my heart as it pays tribute to my late husband (Garcy’s father) Joe. “Add some hearts…and a blue rose to the...

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Making Difficult Conversations Easier

Making Difficult Conversations Easier

By Special Guest Blogger Jan 25, 2020

Our Special Guest Blogger is Emma Payne, Founder & CEO of Grief Coach. Grief Coach is a text-based grief support service to help navigate difficult times.

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End of Life Times

End of Life Times

By Lori LoCicero Jan 19, 2020

Read Lori's article "Talking to the Dead" featured in the End of Life Times: A Reimagine Community Newspaper.

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Going Green

Going Green

By Lori LoCicero Jun 21, 2019

I've recently changed my mind about this whole death thing. Not the talking about it or encouraging others to do the same, but personally what I want to happen after...

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DIY Celebration of Life

DIY Celebration of Life

By Lori LoCicero May 24, 2019

Celebrations of life can be as unique as every individual. We all have a story, a legacy, a life worth celebrating. Why not gift your loved ones with your own...

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How to Prepare For a Medical Emergency

How to Prepare For a Medical Emergency

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW May 16, 2019

On the month of my sixth anniversary working in the emergency department of a community hospital in Los Angeles, I have written some suggestions for how you can prepare for...

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when I die...

when I die...

By Lori LoCicero May 9, 2019

when I die… Hopefully, it will not come anytime soon. I plan to see 100 years and beyond. But plans sometimes change. We’re not in control.

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What's the Difference Between Palliative Care and Hospice?

What's the Difference Between Palliative Care and Hospice?

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Apr 25, 2019

Hospice and palliative care both provide a multidisciplinary approach to symptom management for people with serious illness. How are the programs alike and how are they different?

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Stop Telling Dad That Mom Is Dead

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Apr 11, 2019

As with many things surrounding death and grief there is no “right” answer and no one path. Here are some suggestions to keep in mind when navigating the grief process...

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to die a peaceful death

to die a peaceful death

By Lori LoCicero Apr 5, 2019

Death is unpredictable, yet inevitable. When we avoid the topic, we find ourselves unprepared and thrown into chaos when it arrives unexpectedly. When we accept that it will come and...

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Don't Leave It To Your Family To Decide

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Mar 29, 2019

Often times in my work as a hospice social worker, and now when playing The Death Deck, I spend a lot of time talking to people about their end of...

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Would you wear your loved one?

Would you wear your loved one?

By Lori LoCicero Mar 22, 2019

Cool or Creepy? Wonderful or Weird? You get to choose. Luckily, today there are endless ways to honor your departed with jewelry and keep them close to your heart.

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What Exactly Does a Hospice Social Worker Do Anyway?

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Mar 15, 2019

  Besides basketball and St. Patrick’s Day, March is also Social Work month! It’s a time to share information about the career of a social worker and what social workers...

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Show Us Your Deck

Show Us Your Deck

By Lori LoCicero Mar 8, 2019

We'd love for you to Show us your Deck...and tell us how you play with it!

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How to Help When Someone Is Experiencing Illness

How to Help When Someone Is Experiencing Illness

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Mar 1, 2019

It’s so hard to know what to do and say when someone is experiencing illness. I’ve been going through some health issues which resulted in two surgeries within a month....

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In the End

In the End

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Feb 22, 2019

The anniversary of my friend’s death is approaching. I began thinking about her and the process of watching her die. Here's the poem that seemed to burst out of me,...

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One Small Action

One Small Action

By Lori LoCicero Feb 15, 2019

Talking about death and the planning involved is tough. We get it. It involves a lot of deep, emotional thought and can seem overwhelming. Where do you even begin? How...

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Talking to the Dead

Talking to the Dead

By Lori LoCicero Jan 18, 2019

I’m comfortable with it now. When I first started talking to the dead, it felt incredibly awkward. Was this healthy? What if they start talking back? Was I losing my...

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The Importance of Game Playing

The Importance of Game Playing

By Lori LoCicero Jan 4, 2019

I’ve always been a huge fan of games. I have fond childhood memories of a game closet filled with options and the endless hours spent playing pinball with my brother,...

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On the 4th Anniversary of my Grandma's Death

On the 4th Anniversary of my Grandma's Death

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Dec 13, 2018

Today, I remember my grandma before the dementia days. A strong German woman who subscribed to routine and hard work. We used to have family dinner at my grandparents every...

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Why are we avoiding talking about death?

Why are we avoiding talking about death?

By Lori LoCicero Nov 30, 2018

I thought we were prepared. Will. Check. Advance Health Care Directive. Check. Life Insurance. (Thankfully) Check. Final wishes, thoughts on leaving a legacy, funeral/celebration plans, end-of-life requests...Nope. None of these had been...

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Questions at End of Life

Questions at End of Life

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Nov 11, 2018

“Tracy” was one of the most direct people I ever met. As she said from day one with hospice, she tolerated no bullshit. Tracy did not want a nurse who...

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My Dad's Cancer Diagnosis Changed Our Family

My Dad's Cancer Diagnosis Changed Our Family

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Oct 16, 2018

Upon leaving the hospital, I saw a different man emerge. This man cried. He wrote in a journal every day. He became sentimental. He asked questions about my life. 

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Lisa & Lori Talk About Death

Lisa & Lori Talk About Death

By Lori LoCicero Oct 14, 2018

Hospice is an unlikely place to meet a future business partner. But that’s exactly where The Death Deck creators Lisa Pahl and Lori LoCicero met.

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Our cat is teaching our son about aging and dying.

Our cat is teaching our son about aging and dying.

By Lisa Pahl, LCSW Oct 6, 2018

T-Bone is helping us teach our son that we take care of the ones we love. That, as we get older, we can’t move as fast and we may need...

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